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By Nadine El-Kabbout

The Path to Healing: Learning from the Downfall of Iblis and the Repentance of Adam (AS)

Alhamdulillah, as Muslims, we are blessed with the guidance of the Quran, Allah’s word that not only instructs us but also provides deep insights into the nature of our spiritual struggles and the path to redemption.

 

Through the story of Iblis’s downfall in Surah al-A’raf, we learn profound lessons about arrogance, self-justification, blaming others, and turning away from Allah’s mercy. Yet, in contrast, the story of our forefather, Prophet Adam (AS), exemplifies repentance, humility, and the hopeful possibility of returning to Allah’s forgiveness.

 

These stories serve as spiritual and mental blueprints for overcoming personal challenges, from sin to self-improvement, and ultimately lead us towards healing.

 

The Five Sins of Iblis: A Lesson in Accountability

 

Sin #1 Disobedience to Allah SWT and Superiority 

 

Iblis’s fall from grace began with arrogance. Allah commanded the angels to prostrate before Adam (AS), and while all the angels obeyed, Iblis refused. His first sin was arrogantly questioning Allah’s command, expecting to understand the reasoning behind it before submitting. In this, Iblis exemplified a dangerous trait—self-righteousness and pride. He believed his own understanding of his superiority over Adam (AS) was more valid than Allah’s command.

 

From a mental and spiritual perspective, this reflects a fundamental flaw in human nature: the tendency to question authority or resist submission, especially when the reasoning behind a command is not immediately apparent.

 

In our own lives, how often do we delay or avoid obedience to Allah’s commandments because we don’t understand them or because we feel we know better? It’s essential to realise that, as Allah’s servants, our role is to submit first and trust in His wisdom, even when we lack the full picture. This submission is what leads to true peace and healing. Understanding that our limited human perception cannot fully grasp the infinite wisdom of Allah helps us cultivate humility and patience.

 

 

Sin #2:  Justifying his sins.  

 

Allah said, “Then get down from Paradise! It is not for you to be arrogant here. So get out! You are truly one of the disgraced.”

 

He appealed, “Then delay my end until the Day of their resurrection.”

 

Allah said, “You are delayed ˹until the appointed Day˺.”

He said, “Because You have sent me astray I will lie in ambush for them on Your Straight Path. (Quran 7:13-16

 

Iblis’s second sin was justifying his disobedience. When asked why he didn’t obey Allah’s command, Iblis replied that he was superior to Adam (AS) because he was created from fire while Adam was created from clay. This rationalisation of his sin is something we can all relate to on a mental level.

 

How often do we find ourselves justifying our own wrong actions, blaming circumstances, or external factors? Self-justification can lead to an inability to take responsibility for our mistakes, making it difficult to grow spiritually and mentally. Acknowledging our flaws and taking accountability is the first step towards healing and moving forward.

 

 

Sin #3: Blaming Allah for his own sins. 


Iblis’s third sin was blaming Allah for his own downfall. He said, “Because You have sent me astray…” (Quran 7:16).

 

This act of deflecting responsibility and blaming Allah for his actions reveals a lack of self-awareness. From a spiritual standpoint, it is important to recognise that we, as human beings, have free will. We are accountable for our choices, and blaming external forces or even Allah for our shortcomings is a path that leads us further away from self-improvement. Taking responsibility for our actions allows us to make the necessary changes and repent sincerely.

 

 

Sin #4:  Dragging others down along with him.

 

I will approach them from their front, their back, their right, their left, and then You will find most of them ungrateful.”  (Quran 7:17

 

The fourth sin of Iblis was his intention to drag others down with him. He vowed to lie in ambush for the Children of Adam and mislead them from the straight path. This reflects the destructive power of envy and malice, both spiritually and mentally. Iblis sought to cause others to fall into the same trap of arrogance, self-justification, and blame that led to his own downfall.

 

How often do we find ourselves influenced by negative people or thoughts that attempt to lead us astray? Being mindful of the company we keep and the thoughts we entertain is critical to maintaining our mental and spiritual health.

 


Sin #5: He completely turned away from Allah’s Forgiveness. 

 

Allah SWT asked them, “Did I not forbid you from that tree and tell you that Satan is to you a clear enemy?” (Quran 7:22

 

“Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You do not forgive us and have mercy on us, we will certainly be losers.” (Quran 7:23

 

“O My servants who have exceeded the limits against their souls! Do not lose hope in Allah’s mercy, for Allah certainly forgives all sins. He is indeed the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Quran 39:53

 

“Indeed, Allah has made you a true promise. I too made you a promise, but I failed you.” (Quran 14:22

 

Finally, Iblis’s fifth sin was his refusal to seek Allah’s forgiveness. He never repented for his actions, and in doing so, he shut the door to his own redemption. This final sin is perhaps the most tragic and offers us the greatest contrast to the story of Adam (AS). Iblis’s complete rejection of Allah’s mercy reflects the ultimate loss of hope. This is where we see the beauty of repentance.

 

 

The Story of Adam (AS): A Path of Repentance and Redemption

 

In contrast to Iblis, when Adam (AS) and Hawwa (AS) were led astray by Iblis and ate from the forbidden tree, their immediate response was one of humility and repentance. They did not justify their actions or blame others. Instead, they turned to Allah and said, “Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves. If You do not forgive us and have mercy on us, we will certainly be losers” (Quran 7:23). This beautiful act of repentance is a powerful lesson in both mental and spiritual healing.

 

From a holistic perspective, repentance is not just a spiritual act—it is a mental one. It requires us to acknowledge our mistakes, take responsibility for them, and sincerely seek Allah’s forgiveness. This process of repentance helps us mentally release the guilt, shame, and self-blame that can otherwise hold us captive. It allows us to reset, refocus, and renew our relationship with Allah. As humans, we will make mistakes, but it is how we respond to those mistakes that defines our path towards healing and growth.

 

Allah’s door of mercy is always open to those who seek it. As Allah promises, “O My servants who have exceeded the limits against their souls! Do not lose hope in Allah’s mercy, for Allah certainly forgives all sins. He is indeed the All-Forgiving, Most Merciful” (Quran 39:53). This promise is a source of immense hope, for no matter how far we have strayed, Allah’s mercy is greater than our sins.

 

A Reminder of Our Legacy

 

Jannah, as Allah has promised, will not be filled with perfect, flawless individuals, but with those who sincerely repented for their mistakes. The journey of healing, both mentally and spiritually, lies in our willingness to turn back to Allah, seek His forgiveness, and strive to improve ourselves. This is our legacy as the children of Adam (AS)—a legacy of repentance, humility, and hope.

 

In conclusion, let us remember that no matter how many mistakes we make, Allah’s mercy is vast, and His forgiveness is always available. Let us strive to be among those who repent often, seeking His mercy and making it our path to healing. May we always remember that our imperfections are not a barrier to Allah’s love, but an opportunity to return to Him and grow closer to Him in sincerity and devotion.

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Nadine El-Kabbout

I’m a counsellor committed to helping Muslims heal, grow, and reconnect with their true purpose. Many in the Ummah carry unhealed wounds, struggles, and generational burdens.

 

True healing is not just about calming the body or improving focus; it’s about healing the soul—something that modern psychology fails to fully address. I’m here to guide you through these challenges, aligning your life with your faith and helping you heal your soul—not just your physiological self. 🌿💚